Jul 31Member-onlyThe Case for Jane Roe by a Feminist for LifeLet me first introduce myself as that friend of yours who lives in the grey. There are those among us who exist in that space of in-between — those who see concentric circles where others just see lines in the sand. In other words, some people often reject the idea…Abortion24 min read
Jul 31Member-onlyA Closer Look at Workplace Toxicity and What to Do About It.In my junior and senior years of high school, we had a principal who looked exactly like him — he was Mr. Burn’s real-world doppelganger. Maybe it is because my “wonder years” of awkwardness were sandwiched in between the late eighties and early nineties, but to this day, if I…Workplace Culture18 min read
Nov 28, 2021Member-onlyWhat Really Is Darkness?What Really Is Darkness? We are coming up on Chanukah. It begins this evening as a matter of fact. I am sure most of you are aware of this and in fact, some of you may even light your menorah’s at home. Chanukah begins at Sundown — as does every…Chanukah4 min read
Published in The Startup·Nov 9, 2020Member-onlyConfessions of a Quitter: Why I Am Walking Away From Teaching (For Real This Time)I didn’t always want to be a teacher. Contrary to popular belief, most of us aren’t born thinking that teaching is the only thing we could ever do. Sure, there are those teachers who always wanted to be teachers and never imagined themselves in any other professional role, but for…Teaching17 min read
Oct 1, 2020Member-onlyProud Boys: Is This World For Real Right Now?While you may be hoping for a better world in 2021, my new year has just begun. With the Jewish High Holidays of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, I have been welcoming the year 5781. …Proud Boys8 min read
May 31, 2020Member-onlyI Can’t Breathe. I Can’t Dream.I Can’t Even. I want this to be a lie: some dystopian world I fell into through the back of the wardrobe closet. I want it just to be a dream. So now I guess, I equate dreams with lies, hmmm. Interesting, huh? Maybe you know what I am rambling…Riots10 min read
Feb 4, 2020Member-onlySand and Grit: What it Means to Live with ResilienceOne summer day, I came home from my morning teaching summer school classes to find my eleven-year-old daughter in the backyard trying to undo the circumstances of her life one grain of sand at a time. In front of her was a Waialua soda bottle formerly filled with passion fruit…Ptsd Recovery10 min read
Jul 19, 2019Member-onlyHere’s to the Men that Show UpA few years ago, I wrote a post about Father’s Day titled, Father’s Day, A Single-Mom, Where People Pee, and Alligators — Oh, My! In that post, I vented a lot of my frustrations with being a twice-divorced, single mom of two children ages twelve and eleven (a boy and…Parenting12 min read
Jun 16, 2019Member-onlyCounting Our Blessings in Dog YearsToday is the pet dedication day at Unitarian Church North in Mequon, WI where I work as the Director of Lifespan Faith Development, and this circus called the pet blessing is my show to put on and lead. I hope all of our furry, feathered, and scaly friends enjoy their…Spirituality8 min read
Aug 8, 2018Hate Unfurled.Hate Unfurled. what is going on in this world so much hate unfurled manspreading disease bringing me down to my knees someone has to give a...fuck words in a haze of paranoia...I’m struck can’t keep going on this way express train to doomsday turn it off, switch it off, unplug people around me…Poetry2 min read